Prepare with clarity
Organize information, clarify priorities, practice ordinary communication, and arrive at professional meetings with focused questions.
Private coaching · California based · Virtual
Navigate a complex divorce.
Build your next chapter.
Executive perspective and practical support for your divorce, financial confidence, and career.
For professionals, business owners, and high-asset households. All genders welcome.
Request a 15-minute fit callExplore services & pricingWith Deserae Codner, MBAFormer technology executive · Personal understanding of complex divorce
Human understanding.Private High-Asset Divorce Strategy Advisor
Technology leadership at Intuit & BILLLed teams of 150+ people8+ years of personal family-court experience
A plan that sees the whole picture
Your divorce is one part
of a much bigger life.
When legal appointments, finances, parenting logistics, and work compete for your attention, practical preparation matters. We turn a crowded list of concerns into clear next steps.
Build financial confidence
Create a practical household budget and understand equity-compensation concepts, with your licensed advisers guiding legal, tax, and investment decisions.
Rebuild earning power
Translate your experience, prepare for interviews, and approach your next career or compensation conversation with a clear plan.
Practical work. Tangible outputs.
Leave with something
you can use.
A focused plan should be useful between sessions. Depending on your package and priorities, we build tools you can keep working with.
See preparation resourcesIllustrative planning tool · not client data
Your priorities brief
- Clarify the next questionWhat do you need your attorney to explain?
- Bring the right informationRecord sources, missing items, and uncertainties.
- Choose a practical next stepIdentify the action, owner, and follow-up.
Defined support. Clear fees.
Choose the support that fits.
Start with one focused conversation or a structured coaching engagement. Each offer has a clear scope, response window, and time allowance.
A focused starting point
Executive Clarity Intensive
$1,250*one time
Make room to think clearly about one priority and what comes next.
- One 90-minute virtual session
- Focused preparation and written recap
- Three priorities and a two-week action list
Maximum 2 total coach hoursLive appointments and all included off-call work count toward this limit.
Explore this optionWeekly structure & support
Executive Divorce Navigation
$3,500*per four weeks · 28 days
A consistent place to organize priorities, prepare conversations, and move practical work forward.
- Four 60-minute sessions
- Two 15-minute scheduled check-ins
- One defined project and bounded messaging
Maximum 8 coach hours per 28-day periodLive appointments and all included off-call work count toward this limit.
Explore this optionExpanded preparation & coordination
Private Client Advisory
$6,500*per four weeks · 28 days
More time and coordination for a transition involving several moving parts and professional advisers.
- Four 75-minute sessions
- Four 15-minute scheduled check-ins
- Expanded project and coordination allowance
Maximum 14 coach hours per 28-day periodLive appointments and all included off-call work count toward this limit.
Explore this option* Four weeks means one 28-day service period beginning on your agreed start date. The fixed fee covers the listed appointments and deliverables within the maximum total coach time. Sessions, preparation, notes, messages, review, and project work all count. Component limits apply; these are not banks of live-session hours. No automatic renewal or unlimited access. Extra work requires prior written approval. See the time breakdown and additional-work rates →
Career & Compensation Relaunch
Your next chapter
includes your earning power.
Returning to the workforce, changing direction, or preparing for a new role? Bring an executive perspective to your professional story and compensation conversations.
Explore career coaching$6,000*eight weeks · maximum 12 total coach hours
- Role targeting and professional positioning
- Resume and LinkedIn feedback
- Interview and compensation rehearsal
- Networking and a 90-day action plan
No placement or salary guarantee. A defined program built around your next steps.
Meet Deserae
Leadership experience.
Personal perspective.
I know what it means to lead through complexity—and to have divorce place demands on almost every part of your life.
My background includes technology leadership at Intuit and BILL, guiding teams of 150+ people toward record-breaking goals. I also bring more than eight years of personal experience navigating family-court matters involving custody, support, relocation, and finances.
That experience informs how I listen, organize, and prepare. My role is coaching alongside your licensed professionals.
More about DeseraeWho is this coaching designed for?
Executives, professionals, business owners, and adults navigating a complex divorce or persistent post-separation conflict. All genders are welcome. You do not need a particular net worth; the right fit depends on the support you need.
How is coaching different from working with my attorney?
Your attorney advises you on legal rights, strategy, documents, negotiations, and court proceedings. Coaching helps you organize practical priorities, prepare questions, practice ordinary communication, and follow through between professional appointments.
Can you help me understand stock-based compensation?
Yes, through general education about concepts such as RSUs, options, vesting, and liquidity, plus organization of your compensation records. Recommendations about buying, selling, exercising, taxes, valuation, or marital property division require the appropriate licensed professionals.
Can I work with you if I live outside California?
Nationwide inquiries are welcome. Availability is confirmed before enrollment based on where you are located and the services requested. The California business location does not make California divorce law apply to every client.
Is messaging unlimited?
No. Each offer specifies the number of consolidated requests and total coach time included. Navigation and Career Relaunch responses are within two business days; Private Client responses are by the next business day, excluding announced closures. Extra work needs prior approval.
California roots. A nationwide perspective.
Virtual support, wherever
your next chapter takes you.
Based in San Diego, with nationwide inquiries welcome. Availability is confirmed during intake based on your location and requested services.
Explore areas of focusA practical first step
You don’t need every answer
to start a conversation.
A 15-minute fit call to explore your goals and the support you need.